Require some advice with my relationship, I don’t understand how to proceed

I’m not sure just what do in order to anymore. Sorry this will undoubtedly be kinda long.

we knew I would lose him if she ever came back in his life. He had been giving 50-75+ texts communications a time and online with her etc. carried their phone every-where I knew he wanted to be with her with him, even to bed (which was not normal) After a while. (i understand we ought to not need done this but i did so) we told him if he would like to be along with her to choose it, i am going to step apart if it’s going to make him pleased. He stated “no i wish to be that we have been divided to discover where is goes. to you, and she most likely does not consider me personally like that, besides i am hitched” we told him “well it is possible to inform her” That killed me doing, but all we have ever desired would be to make him pleased, we clearly never make him pleased, perhaps she could. We figured him happy and he wanted her so will step aside for the 2 of them if she can make. Well after about four weeks or more, I inquired that which was taking place he says just friends she doesn’t see me any other way with them. We stated “fine well I do not wish to move you to select but i can not anymore life like this, you must actually choose”. Therefore now we are supposed to be getting our marriage on track after we have had this talk. He just talks and texts and/or online her once I’m wasn’t around. Often simply don’t appear appropriate. We asked him to head out one night make plans per week ahead of time, absolutely nothing dinner that is big a film or club, simply us (we seldom do just about anything without having the youngsters and then he seldom simply just take me out simply us). Therefore the evening come we try using dinner, he does indeedn’t state much for me, it had been really uncomfortable, after supper we had been planning to head to a club, but decided to go to see a film which was pretty much to start out, when I chose to go right to the bar, rather he began walking to the vehicle, he took me personally home by 9 pm, he desired to get home so he could get online. And so I began watching texting (he removed many of them before i really could read them), we began viewing immediate message convos and discovered he previously a couple of girlfriends, sending nude pic forward and backward, he had been telling her the lies he composed to inform me etc . I sat him down and had another civil convo with him and stated “this needs to end, it’s either me personally or even the girlfriends” this convo lasted about 6 hrs. him telling me personally he really really loves me personally, they suggest absolutely nothing to him, etc etc etc. he told 1 g/f online it absolutely was over she did not go perfectly, and told 2 other people it was over thru text communications. The only I told you about at the beginning did not go on it well at all, ended up being really upset, swearing and calling me personally names and him too, he stated absolutely absolutely nothing simply begged her forgiveness. Their reason had been, well she actually is aggravated, she’s got issues, i did not wish to harm her. He’s got never cared climate he hurt me personally. okay anyways. all should now be over back again to me personally wedding right? NO!! Two to three weeks later on, He deleted her off his she them in change delivered him a note once more aggravated calling me personally indonesiancupid title and him too swearing I want nothing to do with you at him, and finally says. Two to three weeks later on, he continues on up to buddy of hers and their web web page and it is once more begging her for forgiveness and telling her and also at minimum 400+ of associates that i will be delusional, and a mind case. He told the G/F’s that my meds are not working, he doesn’t know very well what my issue is, i am mind instance, in which he is attempting to straighten things down so they can carry on together with them. We truthfully do not know the length of time he had many of these g/f’s.

This past year a classic friend he used to be as a whole love with came ultimately back into their life